J is for Jax

I have decided to stop using the letter J to refer to my son and I am going to call him by his nickname. Also, I am trying to figure out what I can call my husband on here as I don't really like referring to him as T. The only reason I started doing this in the first place is for a little privacy. A little thing called google has made it possible for anyone to find anyone. And we want a little privacy. From people we know. Not from total strangers, you see, because that makes perfect sense!

Anyway, back to my husband and his name - his name is so unique that when googled, he makes a first page appearance and he hates it. Just recently, his old college girlfriend found our family photo website and sent him an email via the website. It was a benign message wishing congratulations on getting married and breeding and saying she was quite happy herself with family life. No big deal really, but the only way she could have found our website was by googling him. Now, I don't really care if an ex-girlfriend wants to catch up or stumbles (don't know if you could call googling an ex stumbling) onto our personal photo website, but I really don't want them reading my blog. And so for now, T will known as T.